then we need to do so as well. The adrenaline surge that comes with conflict dulls our perception of our own and others’ pain. It makes us more likely not only to visit harm on others but also to create unwelcome and unexpected consequences in the process. Imagine what would have happened if…

If you encounter an enraged man with a gun in one hand and a child in the other, you don’t make fun of him. Entertaining ourselves by sharing the latest devastating put-down of the opposition is useless at best. In this moment, it contributes to the escalation of a conflict that holds the potential for widespread destruction.

Moments are important. Moments can heal us and our connections. They don’t fix everything, but they remind us of what’s possible. They give us a bit more strength, a shade more purpose, whether we’re in the throes of early adolescence or elders taking stock of our remaining time on this earth. Moments can even rewire our brains.

Are there moments when you are especially aware of a disconnect between your understanding and another’s…A moment when you wish you had a more whole response, not to evangelize but perhaps to provide common ground or comfort?

“Here I am, Lord. Send me.”

I don’t think anyone is stopping because they can’t afford to buy a cucumber. I do think the prospect of a stranger sharing bounty unexpectedly, bounty that comes from nature and is so simple, is what charms our “customers.” The sight of them stopping certainly charms us.

“When somebody tells me they just went to church it’s as if they said they are coming home from synchronized swimming practice.”

We can tell stories that are true, share visions that matter and bear witness to suffering and hope.

Our asking is a moment of trust.

We can argue the Sacred out of our world, or we can set up camp and watch for its presence.

Our hearts not only guide us - they also give us the energy to live according to our convictions.

The great thing about apps is that if you find one you like, you can listen in the car, at lunch, in the morning seated with coffee and a candle, while watching soccer practice.